Guest Post Philia Love That's Amore Series

The Gift of Philia Love by Melissa Pereira

Love began with God’s spoken word. 

It’s very essence was birthed when God spoke it into existence. 

But, somewhere between creating the celestial bodies and great valleys on earth, our Father noticed a need. 

We are created in the image of likeness of God, and yet our spiritual being desires for human connection.

This is what the ancient Greeks called: “Philia” love. 

We are designed for companionship. 

Cultivating bonds with those around us is part of our very DNA. 

Our very creator is a relational being and the heart of our Father desires to see his offspring extend brotherly love towards each other. 

Philia love is a marinade of mutual respect and admiration.

The yearning for interaction pulses through our veins. To deny yourself of Philia love is to deny the beauty of relationship. 

Philia love builds trust. Philia love allows us to be vulnerable with our friends. 

The gift of Philia love creates an alliance SO STRONG, not even the gates of Hades could prevail against it.

The Benefits of Brotherly Affection

  • It creates accountability: “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another,” (Proverbs 27:17, ESV).
  • It Fosters Encouragement: “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing,” (I Thessalonians 5:11, ESV). 
  • It Unifies People from All Walks of Life“For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them,” (Matthew 18:20, ESV).

In the midst of chaos, may we be peacemakers.

In the middle of our storms, let us offer words of affirmation fashioned from Philia love, and may we extend an outstretched hand to those in need. 

May our own Creator, provoke in us enough Philia love to form unbreakable bonds of friendship. This beloved, pleases the heart of God. 



Melissa Pereira is a proud Latina mamí of two beautiful children who resides in the hip community of Brooklyn, NY. Her passion for writing stems from a love of wanting to share the Gospel of Christ with humor, grace and joy.

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  • Christina Hubbard
    2 years ago

    This is so beautiful, Melissa! I love your wording and the recognition that this love fills a deep-seated gap within every heart. Shared it on my facebook page this morning. So so lovely.

    • Melissa Arroyo
      2 years ago

      Amen Christina, I’m so blessed that you enjoyed it 😊!

      Thank YOU also for the share! ❤


  • Carolina Cisneros
    2 years ago

    So beautiful. “May we be peacemakers!” Yes! So much love and light here. Glad to know you and read your words. Abrazotes.

    • Melissa Arroyo
      2 years ago

      Gracias Carolina! So blessed to read that you enjoyed the piece! The feeling is mutual amiga. Bendicíones.

  • Jana DeVries
    2 years ago

    “In the middle of our storms, let us offer words of affirmation fashioned from Philia love.” Love this idea of our words being the handiwork of Love in us.

    Thanks for sharing!

    • Melissa Arroyo
      2 years ago

      Hi Jana,

      Amen, thank you so much Jana! So blessed to read your words. 🙂

      God Bless,

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